I am Who I Am

Setiap kali aku ke KL, dan pagi-pagi mesti aku akan sarap ubi kayu rebus ni. Terbaik! Rasenyer memang susah nak jumpe ubi kayu rebus cicah sambal atau kelapa gula buat sarap sekarang ni. Biasanya aku akan sampai KL pagi-pagi buta.. dalam pukul 5 mcm tu.. so tunggu kat Pudu sampai ke subuh.. lepas solat subuh terus aku akan menuju ke medan selera kat tingkat 4.. dan semestinya aku akan tunggu mak cik tu punyer ubi rebus.. :) Marvelous.. teringat kat mak.. huhuuuu...

Seems time had goes by till i forgot to have my own blog. Hmm.. Its just a spark of idea by knowing my own cousin is a very active blogger indeed. I am who i am looks as if it has been shut for years.. 2011 of nothing and perhaps.. only in July,2012 i remember him.

It should be a platform for me to sharpen my english and what so ever. I may in the past day became a very english know-a-lot person...But it seems its has been fade slowly year by year..

Time goes by indeed.

Maybe it is time to be return.....

Tahun 2011 semakin hampir tiba, banyak juga perkara yang berlaku pada tahun ini. Kalau nak di  tuliskan, hmm habes sebuku diari la nampaknye. Tapi di pengahkir tahun ni jugak la, aku baru sedar satu perkara.. ahahhaa.. Itu aje di Suria fm.. baru minggu lepas aje aku terserempak dengan itu aje ni.. tapi semgat nak tembus talian berkobar-kobar sampai la ke hari ni... aku jenuh juga memikirkan jawapannya..tapi.. antara perkara yang paling aku risau dengar ... kemalangan bas.. lagi-lagi kemalangan bas.. aku rasa .. tahun ni adalah tahun paling banyak kemalangan bas berlaku dalam seumur hidup aku nih..~~~ haishhh~~~ aku yg sememangnya public trasnport punyer org.... (x berani bwk kete punyer pasal)... rase risau aje dengar...~~ Hah.. dalam bas pun aku sempat lagi call and call suria fm... utk Itu aje la... haish~~ kemaruk dah aku ni... Semoga ade rezeki aku utk Itu aje nih..~~ mana tahu...rezeki anak kedua ni...~~~ 

Salam,

How To Deal With Bossy People

There are many types of ‘difficult people’ that you come across in your life, the toughest being the bossy ones. They are dominating in nature and want everyone to follow their words and often try to impose their will. When somebody tries to negate their statements, they usually become offensive and start behaving rudely. Bossy people not only attract hatred from everyone around them, but are also a source of frustration for those who suffer at their hand. Dealing with bossy people seems to be very difficult. If you have also encountered bossy people and are looking for tips on how to deal with them, this article will come handy.

How To Deal With Bossy People

Be Kind

The very first step to tackle bossy people is to be very kind to them. It may sound unusual, but it surely works. He/she will probably expect you to react with anger, but do it the other way around. Treat such people with kindness. By reacting in the opposite way, you will force them to reconsider their behavior.

Address Him/her

Do not ignore what the bossy person says. Rather, appreciate the person’s point of view, but state that you will still prefer to do things your own way. At the same time, while addressing a bossy person's offensive behavior, be gentle, yet firm.

Release Your Frustrations

When a person gets bossy and tries to impose his/her will on you, you may get annoyed by the behavior and feel frustrated. This may result in the onset of negative feelings and you might end up losing your self-esteem. Release all your frustrations, because negative thoughts can become a source of stress.

Be Assertive

Bossy people have the intension to influence you with their perceptions. Make it very clear that you are not intended towards changing your behavior for their sake. Your self-confidence will help a great deal. Once they observe that you are very confident and surefooted on your thought, they will back off eventually.

Say It Politely

Tell the bossy person, in a gentle manner, how you feel when he/she tries to control you. Convey your feelings honestly. Let such people know that rude comments hurt your feelings. Bringing this fact to their attention will force them to give a second thought to what they say or how they act.

Respect Them

Everyone seeks respect, isn’t it? So, why should the bossy people be left out? Agreed; their attitude sets a negative tone and may even ruin your relationship with them. However, there is no need to be rude to them. Treat them with respect. Your positive attitude may put an end to their bossy behavior.

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